Life of a mummy, wife ..and whats happening around mamatinie's world ..nothing much though but what the heck.. its my blog world...
Wednesday, July 27, 2005
Pindah
Tiap orang ada impian nak ada rumah sendiri . Tak kira rumah tu kecil, besar bergantung pada tahap kemampuan masing-masing. As for me, aku pon ada impian tu , pada aku memang itu lah tujuannya kita banting tulang empat kerat keluar pagi balik lewat dinihari.. kumpul duit..beli rumah utk keluarga kita bertenduh.selain daripada memenui keperluan asas yg lain (makan, pakai , make-up, shopping etc etc). Tapi bila tgk harga rumah sekarang berderau darah le ..tak mampu wehhh…
Kalau diikutkan situasi aku ni, sebenarnya lebih mudah kalau aku kekal menetap di rumah ibu-bapa sendiri. Antaranya :
- Tempat kerja aku sangatttlah berdekatan dengan my parent’s home ala-ala sekangkang kera gitu, nak jalan kaki pon boleh ..so balik rumah awal tak perlu tempuh jem
- Anak aku mak aku yg jaga (cucu sulung laa kata kan)
- My husband work on shift so there’s certain nite yg aku akan spend alone dgn anak aku je.. so takut punya pasal I wud spend nite at my parent’s house (sekarang nie kan mcm2 kes)
- Tak payah bayor duit sewa, belikan barang dapur pon kira merangkap duit sewa lah tu ..
Tapi… .
Bila difikirkan, sampai bila aku nak dok kat celah ketiak mak? Terlalu depend pada mak? and kesian pada hubby tak selesa dok rumah mertua (tak boleh hisap rokok, nak pakai seluar pendek, tido tunggang-langgang) and kami pon tak bole ber “kuch-kuch hota hai” sesuke hati kene kontrol beb kekekke..
So kami ambil keputusan utk pindah rumah. Mujurlah mama faham and tak berkecil hati. Orang kata nak belajar hidup sendiri. Bukan jauh sgt pon area situ jugak ..within 2 weeks time we all akan pindah rumah . Byk bezanya compared to rumah mama, flet lama 2 bilik. After renovations (thanks mum!) Rumah tu dah jd rumah idaman aku. Selesa and sedap mata memandang. Sekarang kami dalam proses nak lengkapkan rumah tu.. I’d try my best tak berhutang utk beli semua perkakasan …tak larat nak berhutang weh .. hutang yg ada nie pon jenuh nak bayor.. maka tiap bulan since 2-3 mths back beriye-iye le menabung nak beli peti ais, mesin basuh bagai.. sekarang ni tinggal nak beli items such as langsir, barang dapur yg kecik2..and angkut katil dgn lori (costly ye pindah rumah nie). So wich me luck ! Harap aku bole manage lah rumah ni and my family . Nak jadi isteri mithali nih eheh ..
Sewaktu remaja dulu aku adalah diantara gadis sunti yg comel banget. Comel dari erti kata kegebuan dan kemontokanku. This is due to appetite aku yg tahap naga. During SPM year, every night at hostel, I would stay-up for study and end-up eating nasik lemak or burger or self prepared Nestum+Milo to prevent me from getting sleepy . Pantang nampak benda semua nak bedal. Akibatnya berat aku mencanak-canak naik mcm kena pam tayar beskal. Even my mom didn’t recognized me when I’m back for good from hostel after exam because I’m too fat at that moment. Mak aku kata muka aku mcm talam . Sampai hati mak ishhh laser gitu…
Tapi semakin aku meningkat rumaja semakin iri hati aku pada kawan-kawan yg selim-melim ala supermodel 90-an (bukan supermodel yg sekarang ni ye .. stok ala-ala penyangkut baju tak main kekekekek). So aku mengambil keputusan untuk menguruskan diri .
First Step - I’d tried all types of ubat diet pills, Dolla cantik (ubat sapu kat perut last-last aku jadikan ubat minyak angin sakit perut heheheh), sabun kurus etc. Nothing works. Duit habis lemak tetap sama.
Second Step – Exercise - ..Jogging - first day – ok, second day jogging 15 mins , lepak kedai makan roti canai -45 mins . Misi gagal.
Third Step – Aerobick , Bought Paula Abdul’s . Tak sesuayyy since I have no suitable room to do the regime. Try doing it at living room . Not enough space. Rimas. Decided to stop when abah joined me did the aerobics things with kain pelikat only ohh tidakkkk…
After all the attempts gagal, I’ve decided to diet maut . I know its not good for your health but as teenager u wont think the long term effects, main hantam saja laa.. so I started eat less and less such as 2 keping biskut mayat and sugarless tea for breakfast, half cup rice with ikan bakar (no kicap cili, if with kicap cili 3 pinggan pon tak cukup) for lunch and just sugarless Milo and fruits for dinner. It works! In 3 months I’ve loss 15 kgs! And then its really hard to maintain such weight till I over do the diet thing. I realized I did too much when my mum started to bebel me not to diet anymore since me looks like orang sakit baru keluar spital or zombie ..Its not healthy anymore. Then I stop diet and add 1-2 more kilos to get my healthy looks back.
Unfortunately after delivered baby, me back to my old shape , chubby banget with lemak sana sini sinun. Punah segala titik peluh aku mendiet selama ini . Should I start the diet maut again? Tak larat makcik adeh ..
p/s Awie nak kawen dengan aku sebab tgk aku glamer cun gile during my wedding day .. hmmmm pandai memilih jugak ye.. Nice taste for 4 years old boy keh keh keh keh ..
Chatting means talking, discussion or conversation and cyber chatting means sembang-sembang secara ilmiah or merapuing with your friends/family/sapa2 yg kau kenal or strangers via computer. I will tell u how addicted I am in cyber chatting.
The “demam” of chatting started around 1997 when one of my uni colleague introduced me to one of the most popular laman sembang in cyber world (should I mention which laman sembang? heheheh) . I learned fast and suddenly get hooked with these new activities.(Thanks Cik Na! heheh). It will started with sembang skema-skemaan with skema intro questions such as “asl pls”. As a new chatters me really percaya dgn apa yg diorang goreng in this cyber world and memang rentung lah kene pedo’oh dgn budak-budak chat nie. First the activities was held at IT lab (kes salah guna lah nie heheh) and then me and my best friend mula start lepak at cyber café a.k.a cc. During those days c.c is the IN things and we all sanggup ke bandar A.S semata2 nak gi chatting (jauh tuuuu).
The reasons why I love chatting cos this is the place where we can meet..all types ,ages, locations, level, pangkat, darjat, kasta friends ikhlas and tak ikhlas..depends on their "nawaitu" Secondly since I am single (masa tu muda rumaja) no pakwe (nobody wanna ngorat me..who am I at that moment perempuan bengong with baggy t-shirt (billabong or maui mostly), selipar jamban yg ada corak bulat2 tu …and beg rambu ramba (beli kat c.m) gile selekeh muahahaha. So aku pun melayan ngorat dgn depa-depa nie (consider jahat or nakal ye aku ni?)..we can pretend to be anybody …so today I could be cikgu tadika yg sopan santun and tomorrow its gonna be mak janda yg serakah ..keh keh keh..
Eventually I started meeting my cyber friends when aku kantoi dgn my neighbours who also chatting in the same laman sembang tapi aremzz aku tak tau pon ! After realised the cyberfriends yg aku sembang everyday tu rupanya "jiran sebelah yg kau kentut kat sebelah pon bole dengar" and she’s already involved in chatting in this laman sembang lg lama dr aku then barulah dia bawak aku to “the gathering” which been held at the same location every week. Maka bertambah ramailah kawan-kawan computerku ini not secara maya anymore…but in real life as well. I’ve been blessed with kawan-kawan chat yg satu kepala, bole percaya and ngam and ends up to be kawan baik/kamcing till now. But u have to bear in mind "prevention in better than cure" la kan …pandai-pandai lah korang pilih kawan in chatting world jgn lah percaya 100%... sendrik mau ingat lah bebeh.
Aku pernah berjanji pd diriku yang marhain ini yg tak akan terinvolve dgn any cyber love since I know how untrustworthy they are (buat gundik je kire ok la kan akakakak) but who I am berbanding dgn yg Maha Kuasa and agaknya sudah tertulis di lumahfuz (cewah!) finally me getting involved with one of the kawan chatting and after years of jd kawan sekutuk (wa all selaku kutuk/nyakat each other bukan buat kerja terkutuk tau!)…Kawan –kawan –kawan (hang kutuk aku , aku kutuk hang), chenta-chenta –chenta and ends up with kawen-kawen –kawen!.... and now in 2005 here I am …me, hubby (x-member chat heheh) and a daughter. See how crazy I am in chatting world ..siap dapat laki lagi hmmm...
Li'll bit tired today with sleepy head. Takdak semangat. Rasa macam katil melambai-lambai balik. Si kenit wake up early today 4 a.m due to her mood yg takmo uhh uhh (beyakk) the result is tak selesa perut a.k.a kembung. Selalunya baby taknak beyak ni bcos of susu but mine just saja dia "malas" . Me really fortunate cause i've been blessed with baby yg tak byk ragam. You have to really understand the baby language. Selalunya baby kalau nak apa-apa for sure nangis kan but mine tak nangis langsung kalau nak apa-apa we just can see her a bit restless then pandai-pandai lah kau nak teka dia nak susu ke..nak main ke wattever. So pray for me harap-harap my precious (ish mcm smeagol pulak..) tu uhh uhhh today.
Siapa suka masak? me enjoy cooking especially lauk-pauk even tak gheti tp aku hantam saja laaa .. i wud browse thru internet to find out interest lauk to cook. Lagi simple resepi tu lg bagus. As a career women (cewah) aku akan cari the invented type of resepi yg aku bole cuba kat dapur moden kita ni.Mana nak carik daun pisang bagai tak kuase haku.. Since my mom is a career woman so aku dah dibiasakan dgn hidup berdikari a.k.a pandai-pandai la kau masak sendiri mak tak sempat balik tghari. Most of the gang yg the mommy is a fulltime housewife always ends up to be a lousy cook.Kenape ek ? Mak korang takut tangan korang terbakar ek? nanti turun saham sibu hinggit muahaha..suppose you all the one yg MASTER in cooking since ada sifu yg nak ajar..hmmmm rugii rugii.. But im lousy bile part cakes & cookies. Kena sumpah ke apa tak tau la..its gonna be baling kat dinding, dinding berlubang types of cakes .. So enclosed one of the resepi (lauk) yg aku dah try hmm yummieee..lapo lapo. Korang pun cubalah!
Asam Pedas Ayam Ayam (of course!) Asam Gelugur Minyak Masak Daun Kesum Air Cili boh/giling/blend Halia (2cm) -Blend Belacan (optional) 2 ulas Bawang Merah-Blend 3 ulas Bawang Putih-Blend Kunyit (1cm)-Blend 1 btg Serai diketuk/titik
Caranya : Panaskan minyak , tumis bahan blend , tumis till wangi, masukkan serai & cili boh, kacau till pecah minyak, masukkan ayam, godek sikit2, then masukkan sedikit air ,asam gelugur,belacan, garam, gula (no ajinomoto!) tunggu ayam empuk/masak then masukkan daun kesum. Tunggu kejap, angkat, ambik nasik and makan dgn nasik . Selamat Makan! heheheh
Hi guys! Setelah puas blog-hopping i think its time for me to start of my own! Its quite late eh? Im not a good writer but this is the kewl place to "lepas geram" , "menjiwangkan diri" or anything!So ...wish me luck ! (ceh mcm nak pegi peksa pulak ekekekekkee) ...so jeng jeng tunggu lah the adventures of new mum! Blogging worldddd...here in comeeeee!
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